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Is It Going to Hurt?

“Hello Mr. Q. I will be over in 30-minutes to take your bandage off.”

My visiting nurse was on the phone. It was June of 2012, just short of a week after open heart surgery. Instead of sewing up my chest with Frankenstein-like stitches like the old days, they used glue to close the incision in my skin and covered it with wide, semi-clear tape, sort of like packing tape.

“Is it going to hurt?” I asked her before she hung up. 

Oh no, it won’t hurt. See you in a half an hour.”

About 30-minutes later, I answered the door, only to see a different nurse. “What happened to my regular nurse?” I asked.

“She got stuck at her last call. I am here to take your bandage off.”

A few minutes later, she had worked her fingers under the top of the bandage and was getting ready to pull it off. “Are you ready?” she asked. 

“Yes,” I replied. “Is it going to hurt?”

“Of course...

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Why Won't God Take it Away?

12 steps healing questions Nov 01, 2020

"God, I am sorry for falling again. Please take this away from me! Please heal me!" I prayed prayers like this so many times when I was up to my neck in my addiction. And I really meant it! But those prayers were never directly answered and I often wondered why. Didn't God want me healed? Didn't He want me to stop the behaviors that were surely displeasing to Him and destructive to me and others?

Then I discovered a missing piece to the puzzle when I compared two Bible passages that speak of confession.

If we confess our sins, he is faithful and just to forgive us our sins, and to cleanse us from all unrighteousness (1 John 1:9).

What are the results of a direct confession to God? Forgiveness and cleansing, which I definitely needed and wanted. But nothing here about healing. I was forgiven and cleansed because of the blood of Christ, but still not healed.

Let me make one thing clear: I believe that God can and does heal in direct, immediate answer to prayer. I had seen and heard...

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